Is my cat happy? Learn how to read the signs

When we’re feeling happy, a cheery smile is usually enough to let others know. But our cats don’t communicate their emotions in the same way.

Although it can sometimes look like our cats are smiling at us, with the sides of their mouths upturned, experts are undecided on whether this is actually a sign of happiness.

Cats have evolved from a solitary species. They have less need to communicate in close contact using complex facial expressions like we do. As a result they actually have fewer facial muscles than social species such as humans or dogs.

Instead, they have a range of other body language cues that let us know when they’re feeling happy. Here are some of the main cat equivalents of a smile to look out for.

1. Slow blinking

If your cat looks at you and slowly closes and opens their eyes, this is a slow blink. It shows that they are feeling relaxed and happy in your presence. If you want to let them know you’re happy too, try slow blinking back.

2. Showing their tummy

A cat’s tummy is a very vulnerable area. If they lie on their back and show it to you, it means they trust you enough not to give them a belly rub. They often use this as a way of saying a happy hello. A simple fuss on the head will be a welcome response.

3. Hop up 

Cats that love a fuss may hop up on their back legs to meet your hand. This is a very warm welcome and may even be accompanied by a friendly chirrup sound, which is their way of saying hello.

4. Tail up 

The position of a cat’s tail will usually give away a lot about their mood. If they approach you with their tail up in the air and a slight curve at the tip, this shows that they’re happy to see you. Find out more about cat tail language.

5. Head butt/cheek rub 

If your cats starts rubbing their head or cheek on you, they’re leaving behind their own unique scent via glands on their skin. Scent is an important method of communication for cats. By rubbing their scent on you, they're marking you as safe and trustworthy. 

6. Purring and kneading 

The gentle rumble of a cat’s purr usually signals that they are feeling relaxed and happy. It may also be accompanied by kneading. Although having their claws digging into your lap may not feel very relaxing for you, it is actually a sign of cat contentment. Find out more about kneading. 

Find out more about cat behaviour.