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How to tell if your cats get along with each other. Six key behaviours to look for

If you share your home with more than one cat, you may have wondered if they actually like each other or if they tolerate having the other one around.

Cats are usually solitary creatures, preferring to be the only cat in the household. But sometimes they can form a special bond with a fellow furry friend.

How do you tell if your cats are friends? Here are six signs to look out for…

Six signs that your cats are best friends

1. They head-butt each other

Don’t worry, not in an aggressive way! By rubbing their heads and cheeks against those of their friends, cats leave behind a scent. This helps remind them that this cat shares their group scent and can be trusted. They do this with their human friends too, as well as the occasional item of furniture or toy to make sure their environment smells familiar.

two white cats headbutting

2. They groom each other

Furry friends will often help to keep each other clean by licking each other's fur. Let’s face it, you’d have to be pretty close to get that personal with your best mate! 

3. They snooze together

Only true cat friends will be happy to share their precious sleeping space with another. They could touch paws, or have a full spooning session. Make sure they each have their own beds to retreat to if they’d prefer to stretch out and be alone. 

two tabby cats sleeping next to each other

4. They touch noses

Instead of a cheery wave and a ‘hello’, moggy mates greet each other by raising their tail in the air and touching noses. Cat owners who’ve experienced a cold cat nose to the face will know that they sometimes greet humans in this way too.

5. They hang out together

Whether playing with their toys, relaxing in the garden, or staring at you while you eat your dinner, cats with a close bond usually like to engage in their favourite activities together. Unlike us though, they prefer to eat and drink alone. Make sure their bowls are kept separate. 

black and tabby cat friends

6. They have a rough and tumble

Don’t be alarmed if your cats engage in a bit of kitty wrestling with each other. If they have their claws in and they’re getting to take turns chasing each other, then it’s a friendly play-flight that helps them burn off some energy.

How to help cats get along

Even if your cats are best friends, they will still like some time alone every so often. Make sure they each have their own food bowl, water bowl, scratching post, litter tray and bed, plus one spare, so they don't have to share. Also give them plenty of places to hide and get away from each other if they choose to. 

Still not sure whether your cats are friends or foes? Take a look at our video to find out more:

 

Find out more about cats getting along with other cats. 

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