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Emma Goble
From the moment you were born I was in love with you and had to wait 9 long weeks before you came to live with us and you stole my heart there and then. We loved each other your entire life and I will miss and love you every day of mine from now on. You arrived before all of my children and you loved them with all your being from the minute you sensed them in my tummy, you looked after them, protected them fiercely and they loved you with all their hearts as their big fur brother. The day you left us was the worst day of all our lives, saying goodbye was the hardest thing we all ever had to do. My children aged 13, 10 and 9, along with mummy and daddy stayed with you till the very end. I brought you home knowing these were your last hours and you were not alone for a minute, each of us had our special time with you to say our goodbyes and we all stayed with you all day and night long even when you had us curled up on the bathroom floor to be with you, in a box 🙈, till the end, we loved you as though you were blood. You never let us be alone anywhere and you’ll never walk alone, you beautiful beautiful, beautiful boy, my only sunshine right to the end. I hope you know how much we loved you. You have left a massive orange furry hole in all our lives and hearts. Nothing will ever be the same without you. We all still talk about you and cut you extra slices of cheese. Love and miss you always my beautiful boy xx
Karen Naya
My heart is breaking but full of love. Our special boy Gustav died very suddenly at 14 and a half. He'd been coming to us demanding to be let in for quiet naps and adoration for 12 years, whilst officially living 4 doors away (unbeknown to us for many of those years). Even during a huge renovation, when there was only a building site and no downstairs to speak of, he still came. Every night. We finally made it 'legal' with his other lovely family a few years ago. Since then, he's been my shadow. Another heartbeat in the house during the pandemic and lock-downs. A demanding meow to let him out at stupid o'clock. (Sometimes not so) gentle snoring while I worked. His weight and warmth on my feet during Teams calls. A soft paw in my face to wake me. Squeezing himself into the sofa corner behind my husband, and slowly but surely pushing him aside. A meow and mighty head bump to greet me when we got home. Sprinting like lightning down the garden, announcing himself all the way, when I saw it was raining and called him home. Dominating the garden and showing the foxes who was boss. Notorious at the vet and cattery for handling with care, and only ever on his own terms. I miss you, buddy. My monkey. My gorgeous boy. Thank you for choosing us. Sleep well Gustav. Safe journey. x
Katrina Dore
Where to start Dobby. You had a rough start to life and fate meant you came to us for 7 short yet wonderful years. The love and joy you gave us was second to none. We'll miss your cheeky face, your quirky head tilts and your big vocal calls of joy when having your back scratched, but most of all we'll miss the best snuggles and kisses you constantly gave us. Even the little love nips! You were small but mighty my little man. You've left the biggest paw print on all of our hearts. My heart breaks all the time knowing I won't see your little face again. I still find your fur on the furniture or my clothes and my tears shed again. Letting you go peacefully to end your suffering was the kindest thing we could do for you but it was so very hard and is still very hard to accept your gone. It's the price I have to pay for loving you so very much. We are all so grateful you were our boy. We're grateful for the love and joy you gave us. We just miss you so terribly. Thank you Dobby for being the best boy. Our handsome boy. We'll never forget you. We'll never stop loving you. Love from Mummy & Maddy x
Ollie Moore
My little Lilly, You were the most precious little cat anyone could ask for, you would follow me wherever I went, even to the shops and wait by the door. Where ever I went you went. You’d cuddle me every night and lay your head next to mine. You and your sister would always play in my van when I would sort it out. This particular day I was putting the front seats in my van to pick my daughter up for parents evening. I left at 16:20, I last saw you in my van minutes before I left. Unknowingly at 16:38 my mum received a call to say that little Lilly had been struck by a car and had died. I arrived back at 17:30 to which my mum broke the news to me. Nothing feels the same anymore, she’s left a massive hole in my heart and it feels like there’s no way to fill it. I love you little lady. I hope you rest in peace.
Harriet Workman
I adopted Rusty, known to all as Fats, and between me and him at home 'Chicken Pants' when he was about 7 and needed a new home. He was the most handsome ginger and white tom with an appetite of a small child. He became unwell suddenly and I had to make that decision a couple of weeks ago. Rationally I know it was the kindest thing but my heart is broken and I feel very alone. He was there without judgement through the last 10 years of the roller coaster that is life including losing my mum and I miss him beyond words. My house is just a place to exist now, he made it a home. Rest in peace my lovely chicken pants, thank you for everything
Carol Dick
I miss u so much my boy he was 16 years old he was my sidekick Ur were always there through the good and bad times with me smudge was an indoor cat very loved and looked after well but on Monday u had to go to sleep and I'm finding it hard luv u smudge be at peace xx
Samantha Hallahan
I lost you, my boy on 6th January. Taking you to the vets was the hardest thing I've ever done but I know it was the right thing. However, that hasn't stopped the feeling of guilt. You were with me, my beautiful boy for 19 years, black & white with such a lovely round face. As you got older you would come & snuggle on my lap or jump on the bed & lie by me. You were so loved Billy, I hope you know that. My heart is aching with how much I miss your cute little meow & super soft fur. You now 'sleep' in your bed in our bedroom. It was your Dad's idea that if I put you there that meant you wouldn't be on your own. I never wanted you to be on your own, so I made sure I held you right at the end my boy. I hope you knew I was there with you. You were so weak at the end that I'm not sure if you knew I was with you but I was. I miss & love you so much Billy, you will always be my boy xxx
Carrie Malcolm
I got my beautiful wee black kitten at 9 weeks old she was the most loving cat so intelligent and followed me everywhere her favourite thing to do was play fetch with her fluffy balls every day if she was out in garden if I called her name she’d come running to me she was by my side she was my whole world however one morning a few weeks ago she was tragically killed on the road outside no words can describe the pain I’ve been through abd to lose hef in such a horrid way it was the worst day of my life I loved her more than life itself ,sadly she was only 2 when she died but they were the best two years of my life she was my best friend and il miss her forever .i tend to take comfort in all the happy moments we spent together and I’m so glad I gave her the best life she could have wished for but a part of me has died to and only time will heal it’s sad to lose a human but to lose a pet you were so close to is just as hard was certainly worse fjr me as she was the closest thing in my life and il miss her forever . Rest in peace my little queen 👸 you were one in a million I love ❤️ u . Mummy xxx
Jade Walker
I rescued my old boy Tommy from Cats Protection when he was 16. I was a little apprehensive at first as I had never rescued a cat, but he quickly settled in and became my real mate. He was a confident tabby, who quickly ruled the roost with his funny little ways. When my partner went away for 6 months, Tommy was the best company. He was very vocal, his chats were my favourite thing about him, he was so friendly, funny and loving. Tommy made it to the grand age of 19, we had him for 2.5 years, far longer than expected when we first got him. We were so grateful to have him and look after him in his older years. Coming home from work and to not be greeted by his chirpy miaow’s is hard, but I am so grateful for all his lovely memories he gave us. We rescued Tommy, but Tommy will never know how much we needed him and how much he meant to us, he was the best boy.
Susan Ford
Wendy died just over a week ago and it has taken me until now to be able to put pen to paper. She was a wonderful cat and we had 18 wonderful years together, the majority of them just her and me. I miss her dreadfully. She was such a vocal cat and the house seems so quiet and empty without her. She treated my husband and I like staff. Expecting meals on time, doors opened on demand and an unlimited supply of treats. She loved being brushed, she loved to sunbath and chase leaves in the garden. She loved her food, prawns in particular, and quickly became a big fluffy spoilt cat. But the unconditional love, support and companionship she gave back in return was the best gift anyone could ever receive. I am struggling to come to terms with her passing. She has left an immense hole in our lives and they will never be the same again. The finality of death is so brutal. However, I keep reminding myself that the pain I’m feeling now is more than eclipsed by the love I felt and still feel, for my old friend. Until we meet again beautiful girl. XX
Lauren Scott
I collected Milo at 6 weeks old. He stole my heart within minutes of meeting him. Milo was a tabby cat with 4 white socks, a fluffy white chest & an extra large fluffy white belly. As he grew in size, he also grew in appetite. His favourite thing in this whole world was his cat treats. He was full of chat, chirping, purring & most of all giving everyone little head bops. During the course of my marriage breakdown, Milo was my constant companion. He was so sensible & empathetic. Knowing when I was extra low, he would lie on top of me in bed & cuddle in close. Milo was my chosen baby. I treated him like a proper child - in turn, he let me be his mummy. Milo passed away last Wednesday morning. The vet is still unsure exactly what caused it but I feel so much guilt thinking how he may have been in pain & I didn't even know. Every time I look at the sofa recliner I think of you. Every inch of my home is full of memories of his little fluffy face. I spent your whole life loving you & now I'll spend the rest of my life missing you. Being your mummy was the best gift in the whole wide world. I will never ever forget you. Lots of love from mummy & your baby fur-brother Diego xxx
Jessica Scull
My gosh it’s been the hardest few days. I adopted Moo, a beautiful grey petite Persian who had such a hard start to life, found on the streets with kittens in Egypt. She joined me in February 2021, like my little valentine, she showered me with warmth and love, she was my family, my world. Moo was diagnosed with kidney failure and over the last few weeks her breathing and kidney disease became worse.. she was barely eating and her happy demeanour and habits changed… I made the choice to let her go, peacefully before she got worse, there was no cure. There is a huge part of me that feels horrendously guilty, does she think I gave up on her? Did I give up on her? Should I have fought more and tried more treatments? My heart is broken, my world feels very bleak, you aren’t in your favourite spots, your food bowl is gone, your hair everywhere will be missed beyond words. I love you my sassy Moo Moo, I wish we could have had more time together but my gosh, I love you dearly, I always will. 31.01.2025 🌈 Your mummy Jess xxx
Renata Pucci
Louis found me when I was taking a stroll on the grounds is my local church. He was scared and sitting alone in a corner when out eyes clocked. I could not ignore him and because he was dirty and abandoned, I took him home. He had no microchip so I took him in. Louis was the most affectionate cat ever. He gave me so much love and I try to match it in return. His health was poor and we were at the vets often. My baby passed away yesterday in our living room. It was a long passing and I don’t know how to cope with the memory of it at the moment. I hope to get better. I did everything I could to make you healthier, Louis, but God decided it was your time to go and be next to him. I love you immensely. Rest, my baby.
Jessica Theaker
Bonnie had been at the RSPCA branch the longest out of all the cats. We were told she didn’t like going near people but as soon as we opened her pod she came out and sat on all our laps. She really chose us. I got her when I was 10 and she died a couple of days ago at 15 years old. She had a long and happy life and died peacefully and quickly in my arms but it still feels so unfair that she’s gone I miss her so much. I was completely heartbroken and still am but if anyone is reading this and struggling it is genuinely getting easier every day that she’s gone. I know she’s at peace and no longer in pain. I want my baby back but I know that I will be okay and you will be okay as well x
Tiffany Dobson
Lola was everything to me. She was a tiny tuxedo cat, with big green eyes and white whiskers. Despite being 10 years she was smaller than my 7 month kitten which left her very disgruntled. She was a grumpy lady to everyone but me and a select few. I loved her so much. She slept on my shoulder every night and would purr in my ear and pad, and although it kept me from sleeping so many times I loved her and knew she was being nice so I'd leave her to it. Every night I let her in she would trill to say hello and grump if I took too long, and would make herself at home on her chosen perch that evening. I thought I'd have so much longer with you, you were going to me my granny and I'd see you get old and grey in our flat. I suppose no amount of time would have been enough, I'm so glad I got to love you and call you mine. I'm going to miss you so much my baby, please be good P.S. Try not to pee on grandad up there, he will not take kindly to it